Love Note 4.22.24 💚

We are raised to be people pleasers.

Most of us know from a very young age that the best way to feel safe is to be nice. Or act small. Or become invisible.

These become ingrained habits that quickly become invisible to us.

We get so used to doing what pleases others, we lose any connection to what pleases us.

Here's the big secret though: You are here to do what pleases you. AND it's only through doing what truly lights you up that you'll be able to serve out your purpose and impact the collective.

Being the YOUest requires that you use your energy on what makes YOUR heart sing.

Your experiment for the day: Pay attention to when you engage in behavior that works great for someone else but leaves you feeling frustrated, annoyed, or empty. If you have an opportunity, step out of your comfort zone and dare to disappoint. Pro tip: Usually it involves saying "No."

Go be the YOUest!

Christine

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The Sun has just entered Human Design Gate 27. This is a powerful background energy that will support any and all efforts to release yourself from the bonds of others, helping you to become truly self-sufficient and allowing others to do the same.

I’d love to hear how this energy shows up for you today.

Do people notice that you're a great caregiver? You might have Gate 27 defined in your Design. Find out by getting your free BodyGraph and a fun fact or two about your energetic blueprint.